Are you keen to reinvent yourself in 2010? Yes it's a New year again. The time we feel that everything will be at new leaf. The time when we think some new miracles will surely take place this year.
New year is ideal time to kick start a new phase in your life and work with new resolutions towards life. I dont understand why people think the new year as a new start ?why can't one start anything new when its really needed to start? Well its fine with all that. Let us make huge changes that will be hard to keep for few people as to change one's habit its really very difficult but not Impossible. Instead follow steps for successfull & fruitful new year’s resolution this year.
1. Acceptance:- Some things you don’t have to accept and should not just because you can’t change them. I mean – there are many things that people can’t change in their own lifetime that they continue to fight against.No matter how much you want to. There are things that are meant to go differently than you want. And all I can do is to accept them.Try to accept the things as they are beacuse sometimes we cant change the way or suitations & at that time the best thing to do is to acceptance of GOD's Decision. If you think you agree with someone accept it even if it means that you are proving yourself wrong.If you can disagree on something will all your might, then why not to disagree with yourself.
2.Be a Listener:- "Becoming a better listener is one of those things you can never master well enough. So, although I've come a long way, I will try my best to do with the rest of my life too."Though I use to talk much I always have a habit to listen’s other person’s point of view before giving my own. Try to listen others what they actually want to share or speak to you.
3.Try Helping Others:- I know that giving and trying to help others, is not going to change the world. Even though Give support to those who need you,help them unconditionally, even if they are same people who in time will turn their back towards you. 95% of the time-learn the art of giving unconditionally to others receiving the best will always come to you in return.Personally giving to others had changed my life a lot i have always got a lot in return of it by giving itself,One thing is that you can't give till you understand and realise what the person want & how you feel when u fulfill its needs by giving up yourself for them.
4.Have a Habit of Let Go:- Letting go is one of the hardest lessons in life.There's are many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go sometime with situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.Letting go of your past memories and that also which have made you smile a lot are also extremely hard to let go. Let go yourself in the thoughts and presence of those whom you turn to for help and support some day. Let go of those who never were your's and never ever will be. So live freely by letting ot gone.
5.Change Yourself :- Change is the essence of life.Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become tomorrow in life. It takes time to change and get where you want to be in life. I would say dont change your originallity change yourself somewhat for the people who loves you unconditionally as they will always tell you things that can improve on you. They will tell you things they may not like about you or might be not good for us, They will tell you things that will help you to make yourself a better person out of you. And changing for these people will not loose your identity but will gain a strenghth.
6.Live again:- My father always taught me to be the best person you can be. Strive to live your life to the fullest and don't let one day go by without trying to live it the best way you can. Its said na that Live each day as its a last day of life.If i would got to live over again I would take fewer things seriously which i didnt took but even though have no regrest towards it, I would take more chances to live again,Live every second you can with those people whom you love n care for them spend so much time with their existence and let them know that you really appreciate being with them. You will never know when thay will live you or you might live them.So Live life at fullest. I would say Life is like an chocalate Ice cream enjoy it before it starts melting.
7.Keep Trying New:- Always be ready to do something new in life. The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer up for something new in life. I know You cannot always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you get what you need. So why not to try rather then not trying and complaning about it. The world is my classroom, each day is a new lesson and every person I meet is my teacher. And i would say your enemies are our best teacher as they point out your mistake and by that we can try to improve it. Nobody is perfect over here so why wont to try t learn something new each day and to make ourself a better one.
8.Be Honest:- Honesty means declaring your real opinion even though to another person, it might be wrong. Honesty is all about Trust. When we are dishonest with people, sometime it's because we are fear something. We fear that being honest will allow them to hurt us in some way, or we fear that being honest will hurt them in some way but Be honest to the one you care & love most, be it wheather its your family, friends, relatives or any unknown stanger. Be Honest to them and that will earn your respect and love from them and and you might gain respect from those also whom you never expected would or could love you in return this much.
9.Be Sure What You Want:- Be sure of what you want in life. Just by seeing others people and dont try to follow as they do be yourself and decide what actually you want. Yeah people's experinces may teach you from taking any hasty decisions in life, it may make you realise how fortunate you have been but not necessarilyu everyone whom you come across in life will tell you what you want so be sure with what you want in your own life. You just need to focus on your goals in order to achieve them. There are several things you can do to keep yourself focused. Always get your plan of action! You have to have a plan to follow in order to achieve your desires.I believe in the Law of Attraction. But just stating at your desires is not good enough to bring them to you. You must have a plan of attack at them.If you want something, you have to work for it,Don't let anyone fool you into believing you can get something for free. There is always a cost of some sort. Whether it be time, effort, or sacrificing something now to achieve something greater later.You must put forth that energy in order to receive something in return.
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